She was raised as a member of the LDS Church and attended Brigham Young University. After she stopped practicing the religion, she published the book Secret Ceremonies. In the book she describes her childhood, her marriage, her divorce and the temple ceremonies in the LDS Church. She also blames the church "for her inability to enjoy marital intercourse, for her three failed marriages, for her attempted suicide, and for the two months she spent in a psychiatric institution".[3] The book was a commercial success; it spent 15 weeks on the New York Times best-seller list and over 500,000 copies were printed.[4] Laake was excommunicated for apostasy because of her criticisms and also for her "detailed revelation of top-secret Mormon temple ceremonies" shortly after the book's publication.[5] In 1994, Laake was diagnosed with breast cancer.[2] In 2000, she committed suicide by "ingesting an overdose of pills" in Charleston, South Carolina.[1] At the time of her death., Laake was being actively treated for depression.[2] According to her friend and former coworker Terry Green Sterling, this depression was severe and it began several years prior to the suicide